“Another Photo…SAME LOCATION…

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This is the  SAME LOCATION… but that is my MOTHER… now… she is holding our baby sister Karen… the twin  that was a survivor!


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“Life Changes in… SEPTEMBER…”

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In SEPTEMBER  of 1945… LIFE as I knew it …came to a big change.

Since my MOTHER would be having twins in FEBRUARY of 1946… my two  brothers DENNY  and TOMMY and ME  – would need a place to be taken care of …for a short time… so my MOTHER was told that the paper work that she was signing …was just a formality …but that was not the truth.

There were three locations  – that children could be placed on a temporary basis.   The first one that we all went… for a visit with a social worker  – doing the driving and giving us all the details  – as to what she thought would be a good place for each of us… first, Saint Mary’s Home for Girls – in the South Saint Louis area.  This place – made a real impression on me – it was a very tired  and worn out place – and not as all friendly  and not really  a place that I was wanting to go – and no amount of telling me – it would only be for a short time.

The second place would be for boys only… Saint Joseph Home for Boys… and since I was not to go there – well nothing at all was very appealing  to me My two brothers – well they just were too young to know what they wanted  – and I do not think that they had any idea …of what was really going on. When each of my brothers were to be born… well I was the one that had to go somewhere for a short stay  – – and even the bag of candy did not set too well with me.  That is one time – I’ll never forget!

In the above photo… My FATHER is holding the one surviving twin KAREN –  then there is DENNY –  Mary Ellen – – TOMMY –  are we HAPPY… – – NO!


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“Start School… SEPTEMBER…”

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This is what I looked like… on my way HOME…just left school  – “Perpetual Help Grade School” – – on Linton Avenue, Saint Louis.


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“Another BIRTHDAY…Another YEAR Older…”

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We moved in here… in AUGUST –  – and SEPTEMBER  follows…  and another  BIRTHDAY… for ME – – and in the photo is TOMMY and  ME!

Would you believe that in just looking at the above photo – – I remember what I like doing most… and that was to do “Cartwheels” – – I would just do one after another… and the way that I am standing,,, it looks as if I will be doing a “Cartwheel”  right out of that photo!

These were the beginning years of WWII  and we were doing our part. As you can see TOMMY is wearing a white  “Sailor’s cap”  – – – there wasn’t a military song that he didn’t know  – – and could sing it …with all the  ‘gusto’ of a movie star  – – hands and legs moving  – especially when we were on the bus or street car… going to and from the downtown  Saint Louis area. Of course…I would be right by his side – to keep him going  – –  Tommy just had a natural knack for entertaining –  you might say …he stole the  “show” –  – and I knew most of the songs –  because when we were on our swing-set and swinging for hours — we would sing so loud and  for hours…I’ll bet that  – they could hear us singing …way on down to GRAND AVENUE!

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If you are looking at my face…you can see that… I have the “MUMPS”  –  and this was TOMMY’s fault!  Tommy got the MUMPS – – and gave them to me.  Tommy is keeping his “eye” on DADDY – – because we know that DADDY is going to CALIFORNIA to do welding on battleships in  “Vallejo”  – the “San Francisco Bay Area” California.

If things would  have worked out the way that I thought… I was the one… to get to go to CALIFORNIA – – but this is another learning lesson in the game of LIFE… “Live and Learn” – – when you are on a journey – – that is all you are doing!  You will go somewhere – that you have never been before… and you study the situation out – determine exactly what needs to be done… for you to arrive where you want … and maybe get to enjoy at least “FIVE” minutes more of this new LIFE experience.  You heard that old song… “Give Me Five Minutes …MORE…”   well – that is  how they came to write the words for it –  – just another one of   “LIFE’s”   experiences!

Just so everyone will know…TOMMY went to CALIFORNIA…


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“With BIRTHDAYS – YOU get OLDER!”

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With a fancy  “black velvet dress”-  on… that calls for a BIRTHDAY –  my 4th!

In the above photo  – that is my brother,   DENNY  – and what was good about us KIDS – having a BIRTHDAY – was that –  that would call  for  a very  big   PARTY   for the ADULTS!   My FATHER was the type that had to have a lot of “SHOW” going on – –  when any event or occasion came along to celebrate.

In the basement – – we had several of those large round galvanized tubs – – each filled  with ice and beer and some soda.  Since… my FATHER  took charge of the cooking –  these occasions called for food  – and lots of it as only he would like to do – –  and – to do it up  – – so that everyone could take home plenty of good eats – – that would last them days. I always marveled at how he  could cook and bake and never needed a recipe for anything – just knew what and how much – – and everything …was fit for a KING!

My MOTHER told me… that when we were little…we were placed in the “play-pen”  in the center of the PARTY – and all the adults would blow those noise makers – that would extend right into our faces and make a loud noise!  Guess… those adults thought that they were entertaining us  kids – or maybe trying to scare us into keeping quiet  – or maybe… they just didn’t have any other way of acting silly???

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This …is in the WWII early years… my PARENTS decide to sell that nice house we had in PINE LAWN – and it sold so fast  – went like “HOT CAKES”  –  and… if you wanted a house – they just were not  to be found … just not available…but  – we had to rent for a month or two – everything packed – since we knew  – we were looking and finally …they found this 85 year old house in NORTH SAINT LOUIS – – and fairly close to the the above  “Fair Ground Park” – – you can see us in the above photo near the lake in the PARK –  where my brothers DENNY and TOMMY and I would go quite often to play.

Since we are  – each a year…  apart in age…it looks like we are at least  – 3 – 4 – 5 –  years old  –  Isn’t it nice to be so close together in age in the family???   DENNY has red hair – I have brown hair – and Tommy has blonde hair – – and in so many of my photos… I am wearing a  multi-color  ribbon- bow in my hair – the reason for the remark – is that I still have one of my favorite bows  – just had it in my hair this week  – for my BIRTHDAY pictures – – some things that you like – well…  they just last forever and ever.


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“What a Beautiful Day…for a BIRTHDAY?”

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“This would be …Mary Ellen!”   –  and would be seventeen months old!

When I look at this  old PHOTO –  I can see why my MOTHER wrote on the back of another PHOTO of me… when I was eight months of age…everything that I could do!  On the other PHOTO… she said …”she tries to put her socks on… and she knows where the shoes go – at least she tries to put them where they belong!”

Evidently…what my MOTHER was writing on the back of that PHOTO – was that I wanted to be going somewhere… to do something… and the only way that  – that would be happening …would be for me to be dressed and ready to go!   (And am I glad that I knew that , too!)  All of what my MOTHER – – took the time to write…was true!  Even  – TODAY – if you are not dressed and ready to go… or at least ready to get to work…  or,  when I was small – to be ready to play… there would be the possibility – of   “ME” not getting to go and do something – – especially when everybody else is ready and they are not in the mood to wait for a “slow-poke” – – or even wait for a lazy “MARY”  – – as that is one name that I would not want to be called!

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Here I am… a little older… and doing what I would do so well… rock in my rocker  – until I could get it to turn over backwards and upside down… must have been  in a big hurry to get somewhere  – – and the waiting would be too long – and the rocker got me somewhere – – where I do not know – – but may just have lost a brain or two – – on my way to “no-where” and fast!

At  this age …. “Children”   “have it made in the shade!” All you have to do is ask… and someone is running to you –  as fast as they can… handing you something – and if that is the wrong thing – – well…then they pick you up – carry you here and there – and then sometimes… they hold you so nice  and tenderly in their arms…. while they sit in the grown-up’s rocking chair…and they sing to you… and now… you feel like you are back in HEAVEN with all the ANGELS…listening…to  all of  your favorites songs.

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This is in…Aunt  “Irene Brady Riley’s”  – back yard on Ashland, in North Saint Louis.

As you can see – I was dressed and ready to go… and I sure do like to go… It seems to me – – while looking at these PHOTOS – – that the adults – – might have thought I would run away – or fall – or something else – on the drastic side,  would happen – as –  I have other PHOTOS – and Aunt Irene has her hand – – behind me – – as if I would fall or break any minute – – but –  as you can see… those legs… were made to run as fast as I could… and I did!

If you enlarge this PHOTO – – you will see the big grin on my face – – I know that I am getting out of the reach of  “Aunt Irene”…My legs are running as fast as they can – – and she is not able to catch…ME!!!


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