Dec 9th “We did so MUCH to enjoy Christmas”

Christmas Remembered pg.3

Sometimes in LIFE… I do believe, that we all need to think back  to our very early years … as a very young child… and start remembering just exactly… all of the most wonderful things that we did with our parents.

When you start to think back… you will start to remember …we as a family did get together  more often, and did really enjoy  doing wonderful  and learning to do more things as a family… than we do today!

I will put my answer at the end of this article… and you can let me know… if you agree, and or if you have some better ideas… regarding the celebrating of CHRSTMAS together as a family?

In the  early 40’s,  my Dad took me to the  Poultry Store  where they had, (live birds) and we would pick out that live  Turkey… to be prepared, “quickly” for us to pickup on our return  –  as we needed to head for  McConnell’s fruit and vegetable store, for some of the other ingredients needed by  my Dad… to prepare our Christmas dinner. 

All of these stores  that we went to  –  to do our  CHRISTMAS  DINNER    shopping were, within a block or two.

Today: all of these little stores are combined  together under one roof, and  under some big  “Name” Super Store!

After picking up the “Turkey” and everything that was needed  – we headed home.

All of this extra special shopping… was done in our neighborhood… and no vehicle was used… we walk and carry those items that were needed… NOW! 

Immediately  –  arriving home… my Dad  turned into an Irish elf  –  no cook book needed  –  he had  pots and pans going  – the smells and aroma were  the indication something  “special” is taking place  –  and this is going to be a most delicious meal and time for all!

Also, can not forget  that “Christmas” tree –  we all dressed warm and headed out –  there were several “tree lots” to check out and we all had to give our    “ooh o ‘s   and   ah’s”   and with the “Right Tree” –  we headed  back for  home  and in a big hurry!

My Dad knew where all the  “Christmas Stuff”  would be found – and brought the outside lights  – outside  and all the inside  ornaments and lights in to the living room.

The lights for outside were the size of a 25 watt or 40 watt  round bulb  –  and in no time at all,  he had that  “Christmas tree” and the snowball bush out side  all decorated,  and with that size bulb the  decorating was beautiful!   

Now, ready to do the inside decorating!

The best memory of all this  “Christmas” prep was that the  “Turkey”  was so big, it was the only thing,  you could put in the  “oven”  –  so when that  “Turkey was stuffed”  –   into the “oven ”   it went…  and after midnight…  it would be cooking slowly,  and as we slept –  you would think you were in “Heaven”   –  the aroma was so heavenly!

Around    –  5 a.m. to 6 a.m.   – you just had to get out of bed and see   if “Santa” came to our house? 

We all got up –  and in our time   –  back  then  – we went to the Perpetual Help Church, which was just a couple of blocks away.  

All the way to and from Church   –  wishing friends and relatives  a “Merry Christmas! ”  

 –  Back home  –  we  celebrated!

“Christmas… way back and when I was little… we did  so much more together at home… and in our walking  all around the neighborhood… including the Parks… for miles around… because we did not have “TV” to keep us  sitting in one spot for too many  long hours… not able to do and or to go for long walks with the family… and in our walks… we would visit our relatives… as so many did live  in and around the same area as we did.”

Dec 7th “Christmas Time Yesterday and Christmas Time Today”

Wait! …..   Christmas is coming… and this… is that most and extra special  important part of the year …  you  just have to be good… and if you are not real good, and I do mean exactly  as … I am saying… “If you are not good”   – 

“YOU will end up  getting   a lump of “coal” in your stocking!”  

That’s no idle threat!… That is what will happen!

If you are old enough like most of the people today… 

Did you not  hear about… what you have to do to prepare for Christmas and what happens, when you are not a very good little girl and or a  real good boy… can you remember back and  hearing … anything like that… when you were a very small child?

In the early 40’s,  to heat the house, some people had furnaces that required  someone to shovel coal into that furnace  –  and getting a couple of lumps coal  in your “Christmas” stocking would  tell all of your friends   – that you were a very bad  little kid all year! 

And,  as I remember… I never  ever heard of any of my friends… ever  receiving  some lumps of  coal in their stockings… that they hung by the fireplace with care … in hopes that… good ole Saint Nick  would fill… with only good things for each of them?

Way back and then…

Those were the days when the “Mailman”  delivered mail,  two (2) times a day, and then sometimes, someone riding a bike from  “Western Union”  –  would show up with a Telegram.

And, these were not always good news! 

 Some windows  along our street had a small  oblong  “Flag” hanging with a gold star or two  –  Gold – black – blue  colors. 

I’m thinking we had one in our window, when my Dad was working aboard the ships in California.

I used to like to watch… out of our front window for the  “Mailman”   for we were  always receiving mail! 

  One  day an extra special letter  was sent to me,  it had some sand  from the beaches  –  pasted along the bottom  –  just so I would know … what the sand looked like in California. 

My Dad,  sent the mail… just special for me and said… that  they had so much sand  –  that they would not care … if I … also had some of their extra special sand?

It’s amazing how much mail,  we were receiving … way back then… just thinking, it may have been, that it was so much cheaper than calling people on the telephone… as  everyone  knows…  that is if you are old enough today …

I know that… you can remember, back to those good ole “TIMES” that there were so many  extra charges   – depending on the time of the day, you were making your telephone call…

and then the day of the week,  and most importantly … a local call … and then a call to the nearby CITY  and then the STATE and Over SEAS… as the rates had extra charges and almost all of those calls needed a “Telephone Operator” to complete for you…

The making of a telephone call was not that easy … as the charges were based on  day and and hour and if “Party” called was available at that  time … each and every time  –  morning  and afternoon and evening.

So… back then,  with the high cost of a telephone call… we did the very best  we could by sending  a letter and  or lots of cards … so  very much cheaper!

 Everybody  was sending  “Christmas Cards” with newsy letters inside  – and… would  “YOU”   believe…   they only cost……. 

 “three cents!”

“All together different  today… and so much cheaper!”

Dec 5th “A Wonderful DAY to Celebrate a Birthday”

“Happy Birthday Lee Jr. and Many More Birthdays”

In Florida… little Lee would wear his “swim trunks” all most all the time or he would have a pair hidden somewhere outside so  that he and his friend, Arthur  who lived  down the street… would meet to go   swimming across the street in “LAKE MELBA”  only a seventy foot deep LAKE.

This memory  is of  Lee Sr.’s  MOTHER  and  of my MOTHER  as they were both staying at our home  and may have been  for a month or so and  then… on this particular day, maybe “NOON TIME” … Lee Sr.,  comes HOME… from one of the restaurants we operated  and with some special treats to eat…  for all of us, and while he is opening up the “goodies” for us, Lee  Sr., ask us… “WHERE IS LEE?” 

We were all sitting around the dining room table  and would you believe, “WE did not know where  little LEE… was?”  

So… I went outside and started calling LEE’s name  and not seeing him anywhere around, my husband, Lee Sr.  was awfully upset! 

Lee said loud enough for everyone in the neighborhood to hear … as the windows were all open and you know how voices can travel  especially, when you do not want the neighbors to hear, “THREE grown women sitting here  and “NO ONE KNOWS” … where “ONE” LITTLE KID is???”

Well with super speed,  Lee Sr.,  took the vehicle and started driving down the road along the LAKE  and is  calling out  and looking around the water areas  hoping to see the boys and bring them home. 

Finally,  one neighbor that lives on the LAKE side heard all the commotion and called  us,  to say, that the boys had taken one of their boats out, and they are on it.

Also… someone should come and take another boat out and pull that  one in… as the one that they  are  on, is just bobbing around, but the boys do look  to be okay???

Lee took care of getting the boys in that boat…  and then… towed in to shore, and I do believe… that everyone  in all of  the entire  neighborhood …  got the message,  that if  ever… these two kids are caught ever again  in and around those… boats call the POLICE, as Lee Sr.,  was retired POLICE and everyone in  and around Fort Lauderdale knew that  “LEE JR.” as young as he was…  just loved to be in the water and would  swim just like the fish,  and never had  any training but,  because of this happening,  with Lee Jr.   …….

Lee Sr.,  just as soon  as he could … took care of this situation… as he wanted Little Lee to know what he was doing… and did  get Little Lee  enrolled into the local “Y MAC” and  he received plenty of training in all phases of  swimming  and  that of being a  “High Dive” swimmer, too.

And  so – on this day must remember  that the most important NAVY MAN… my son, Lee Aldrich,Jr., and how wonderful he looked  as when  he was serving in the NAVY.

And just one more of “Lee, Jr. on leave from  the NAVY – for the  HOLIDAYS – only wish  that this Photo would  also have been in  full color.

But,  when it comes to the HOLIDAYS – that smile is in the best  of colors you can get – just being  NAVY – smiling all the way HOME!!

Thank YOU,  Almighty Yahweh for your wonderful protection for all of  our young people,  that will serve  this… their Country,  AMERICA … for the  “FREEDOM”  that we all share,  with  all of  our neighbors…  forever!           D.V.