In the “Right” Place…???

When –  My two brothers and I were placed in German St. Vincent Orphanage – it was because they accepted boys and girls –  so,   instead of my brothers  being placed in  the St. Joseph Home –  and me in the  St. Mary’s Home  –    at the  St.Vincent’s home –  we could all be together?? Also, the children accepted had to be over the age of two (2) years of age – no infants accepted.

The reason that we needed a place to be temporarily  placed – was that my Mother was going to be  having  twins,   girls – as twins run in  MOM’s family – and each of these girls – at birth weighed in at 8 ½ pounds – just entirely too much for my small bone Mother!  This Orphanage  – when we were placed  –  only had one child who was truly an “ORPHAN” –  all children came from families with some kind of  unresolved problem – and with the size of St. Vincent’s  home – there was plenty of room for at least 400 children – even more –  if the time would have required it?

Circumstances change as time goes on – and as we did not get to go home to our parents  – after the “TWINS” were born -– looks like we are going to have to half way  learn to like living here?  Most kids – could hardly wait till the day that –   they would get to leave – and no matter how strong your “PRAYERS” were – because I know, as I was praying, but no results of getting out earlier? – But – maybe there would be the possibility of my sister Karen – the surviving twin to live – would be able to come to the Orphan Home when she would reach two years of age?

So, one day when I was on the swings and facing the “KITCHEN” area – the area where outside deliveries would make their inquiries – there were some people who had a small child with them  – and I started to really pay attention to what was going on  – and what some of the people were saying? The words that I overheard – “We are bringing Mary’s younger sister out  here as she is old enough, now – to live here!” All I could think – was that is my little sister “KAREN” and finally – she will   be here with me!

I knew that everyone could see me  on the swings – and I could not imagine – why doesn’t  someone call me – here I am,  so close – why in the world –  is there a  delay? ?Not everyone gets so easy an answer to prayer – because, I was way off base  –  thinking that my prayers were answered – – this was not my sister “KAREN!”

Little did I know that-  that this was the little sister of “MARY LEE BOYER” – “MARY” was a couple years older than me and  she – also had a couple of brothers  – also in the Orphanage – and she was  very happy to get to see her little sister and that their family was  getting to be a little more united  – something that I was hoping for  – for our family –  to someday be reunited  – something that I always thought that all these “organizations”  – who spout off  with –  that they are working for “FAMILY UNITY” –  but that  is the last thing that they had in mind for us and or our family – at anytime at all??

I sure thought that – that on that day I was in the “RIGHT PLACE AT THE RIGHT TIME” – but since this is not “HEAVEN” – will have to continue to PRAY and WAIT!??


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